因为太能与女儿和女性看护角色共情对老人角色的代入感被削弱了对女儿和妻子道德绑架言语打压(“not very intelligent like her mom”)的老人不就是几十年后我爸的样子年轻女性在(男性)老人面前是温柔体贴委曲求全的而年轻男性却有对其进行威慑性对话的可能正如我在姥爷和他的子女以及我爸和他父母身上观察到的Caregiving experience under patriarchy is very gendered.
I love it I cry for it I laugh for it everthing from my heart ,every word in my mouse We can understand the fault but how? Time is pass but when? We try everything we could to be better better is not my choice ,is just a liar because there is no other way to go at all I choose to live alone for not harming anyone,but actually maybe I hurt myself